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	Sometimes you see what should be done but the obstacles are insurmountable. Don't let it get you down. Your contributions to Misplaced Pages are important. On to the next windmill! Schazjmd (talk) 22:41, 29 June 2019 (UTC)

I literally have a lump in my throat right now. I really needed that - thank you!!

I saw, after the fact, what you'd been dealing with, and I really admire your tenacity and care about doing the right thing for the encyclopedia. I hope you don't let the experiences at that one article discourage you. And there are so many articles that could use your expertise, ones that don't come with a battlefield! Schazjmd (talk) 22:53, 29 June 2019 (UTC)

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Penn's Creek massacre

Hi, I made some small changes to the lead of the Penn's Creek massacre article, which I think improve the wording - if you don't think my changes are improvements, I have no problem with you reverting them - I don't want to upset the extensive work you have done on the article - cheers - Epinoia (talk) 03:05, 25 September 2019 (UTC)

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Thank you! Lilipo25 (talk) 13:53, 6 November 2019 (UTC)

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Thank you so much, Fiamh! I am very happy to hear this. I'm going to continue editing the article following your instructions - I still have some more OCLC numbers to add to sources and have found a contemporary journal article that can be used as a source instead of Leininger & LeRoy's first-person account. Thanks again, and Happy New Year to you, too! Lilipo25 (talk) 19:06, 4 January 2020 (UTC)

And more congratulations from an editor who has been admiring your work from the start.SovalValtos (talk) 12:35, 4 January 2020 (UTC)

Thank you very much, SovalValtos! I'm so happy to have my first good article! I've learned a lot about Misplaced Pages editing while working on it. Lilipo25 (talk) 19:06, 4 January 2020 (UTC)

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97198 Thank you! Lilipo25 (talk) 12:10, 3 June 2020 (UTC)

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Frankopan family dispute

Hello,

I would like to invite you to watch Talk:Frankopan family for further comments on the dispute you had about a year ago, regarding the Frankopan article section. For now, I've reverted the material.

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I. W. Cornwall

I notice you reverted my correction on the Carnegie Medal page. I can see there's some confusion in the sources, but the I. W. Cornwall article gives Wolfran following the Dictionary of International Biography and The International Authors and Writer's Who's Who. I think consistency calls for Wolfran, but I'll leave it to you. -- Robina Fox (talk) 02:05, 23 November 2020 (UTC)

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Graham Linehan

I know you're smart enough and have been here long enough to know what the issues with this edit are. Please try to be serious when editing the article namespace and not spiteful towards content you disagree with on a personal level. — Bilorv (talk) 10:19, 3 December 2020 (UTC)

• Bilorv This is an encyclopedia. It is not meant to be a detailed list of each and every grievance that a highly biased and contentious source (Pink News) with a longtime vendetta against the article's subject has against him. But if you will insist upon including every such grievance, they must at least be accurate. Describing him as attacking a letter from a trans group without stating that he in fact criticized - as did human rights groups, women's groups and numerous newspaper op-eds - the head of Amnesty International Ireland calling for women to be stripped of their political representation if they disagree with gender ideology's effect on their rights is dishonest, biased and has no intention other than slandering the article's subject. Please do not make personal comments such as the ones you made in the edit notes and in the above comment to me, thanks. Lilipo25 (talk) 16:59, 3 December 2020 (UTC)
  • Posting here to avoid bloat on the talk page for other readers, but would you mind correcting your comment at Talk:Graham Linehan from I responded to Bilorv where he wrote to me, on my own talk page, and he made no effort to post here before reverting back twice. to correctly read ... reverting back once.? Cheers. — Bilorv (talk) 13:15, 4 December 2020 (UTC)

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Disruptive editing

Hello. This is a message about recent disruptive editing, which could easily be perceived as edit-warring behaviour, on the LGB Alliance article. As you know, the talk page has had discussion and a consensus has been arrived at. You have openly accepted this, but persist in editing the article away from this version regardless. It is quite possible that you have positive ideas for the article, that I and other editors would be quite happy to implement, but the way to make this happen (with respect the relevant material) is now to make these suggestions on the talk page and, should they command a consensus, they will be implemented. Disruptive editing is absolutely not the way to go about this. Thanks. Awoma (talk) 18:13, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Oh, what are you talking about now, Awoma?? I edited it with YOUR agreement that either source was "fine"! I changed to the Misplaced Pages-approved RS instead of the other one that doesn't meet RS criteria. The only other edit I made was to fix a broken Wikilink. Stop making accusations of "disruptive editing" when there hasn't been any. This is exasperating. Lilipo25 (talk) 18:19, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

You are now edit-warring. Awoma (talk) 18:32, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Do you not know what edit-warring is? Fixing a broken Wikilink is not edit-warring, and these messages with accusations like this are odd and starting to feel a bit uncomfortable. Shall we ask an admin to step in before it gets any more out of hand? Lilipo25 (talk) 18:35, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

I would very much welcome this, yes. Awoma (talk) 18:35, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

OK, agreed. Girth Summit, you may well want to kill me for this, but as you are the Admin who intervened during the last issue between Awoma and I on 4 October followed by discussion on Awoma's Talk Page , I think it has to be you who follows up.

Awoma is currently sending me these notices of "disruptive editing" and "edit warring" regarding the LGB Alliance page, and also making the accusation on that Talk Page. This is currently in regard to my changing a source Awoma used from a non-reviewed website with partially user-generated content ("Open Democracy") to the (London) Times, which is a WP:RS . I changed the source after Awoma agreed on the Talk Page that both sources were "fine" . Awoma's last revision of my edits has actually been reverted not by me but by a different editor with the edit note that my changes were non-controversial and not disruptive but Awoma still sent the notice of edit warring (above) to me.

So I am sorry to bother you with this but Awoma has agreed here to seek the intervention of an Admin before this gets out of hand like the October discussion did. Thank you for your help. Lilipo25 (talk) 19:05, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Well, I'm making dinner at the moment, so don't expect immediate action, but I'll be happy to take a look - it might be tomorrow before I get around to it though. Awoma can you explain what the specific issue is - what diffs are we talking about? Thanks GirthSummit _(blether) 19:15, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

It's pretty obvious from reading the discussion what the issue is, but I think we both know what your decision will be. Awoma (talk) 19:17, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Awoma, I'm genuinely confused about why you think you know what my decision would be - I have no beef with you, and goodness knows I've told Lilipo enough times when I think she is in the wrong. You have accused another editor of editing disruptively, and edit warring, which is a serious charge. The onus isn't on me to dig through the histories of the article its talk page, the onus is on you to provide evidence to support your accusations, or you should withdraw them. GirthSummit _(blether) 19:23, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Awoma Perhaps I should clarify what it is that I'm asking. Lilipo has provided some diffs in her post above about using the Open Democracy / The Times as a source. Is that what you're bothered about, or is it something else? GirthSummit _(blether) 19:33, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

"I'm confused" lol no you're not. The obviously abusive and disruptive behaviour is seen throughout these discussions: and these edits were made with no attempt to engage in repeated requests for discussion, and despite general consensus against: . It's all so confusing isn't it? Awoma (talk) 19:39, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Awoma, are you accusing me of lying? GirthSummit _(blether) 19:51, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Surely not. You're just really, really confused. Awoma (talk) 19:54, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Awoma, I'll review those diffs in the morning. You need to stop assuming bad faith and making hostile mocking responses to other editors; if I'd seen you speak to someone else the way you've spoken to me in this thread, I'd have blocked your account. GirthSummit _(blether) 20:26, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

What would you do if you saw Lilipo25 making repeated abusive comments to multiple editors? I guess we'll find out. Awoma (talk) 20:42, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

You're deflecting Awoma, I'm talking about your attitude here. It needs to change. I'll look at your diffs and take any necessary action in the morning. GirthSummit _(blether) 20:50, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

My attitude is simply that I know you won't do anything about this. That's just obvious to me. If you do, fair enough, but asking me to pretend I think otherwise is ridiculous. As I said, we both know exactly what the outcome is going to be. There's no virtue at all in acting like your decision here is in any way unpredictable. Awoma (talk) 21:25, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Sorry to interrupt, but Awoma, I specifically asked you before I contacted Girth Summit if you thought we should ask an admin to intercede in our dispute here Shall we ask an admin to step in before it gets any more out of hand? and you replied I would very much welcome this, yes. Why did you say you'd welcome this if you think it's obvious that he is going to do nothing before he starts? Lilipo25 (talk) 21:43, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

This particular admin has repeatedly overlooked and excused your abuse of multiple editors. That's why you ask him each time - you also know what the outcome will be. Awoma (talk) 22:32, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

• I only know two admins, and it's a safe bet neither one is particularly fond of me. Nor is either adverse to telling me I'm wrong. Girth is not quick to impose sanctions on anyone (including you, as you've seen, so I'd think you'd be happy about that).

• This is the first time I have asked Girth Summit - or any admin - to intercede between you and me. Girth appears to have intervened on 4 October because he was watching the Graham Linehan talk page when you apparently called me a 'transphobe' (or else someone else notified him without telling me) ; Girth redacted the insult before I ever even saw it and I wasn't aware until later that had happened. You are welcome to check my User Contributions for that date and see I never asked Girth or anyone else to be involved.

• I asked Girth this time specifically because he was aware of the history, having been involved the last time. I can assure you I would have rather asked another admin, having already annoyed this one this week and being well aware that it is never a good idea for a user to stay too much on a Misplaced Pages admin's radar.

At any rate, I will bow out now and we can leave it until Girth gets to it tomorrow. Have a good night. Lilipo25 (talk) 23:27, 19 February 2021 (UTC)

Review of talk page discussion and recent editing

OK, I've read through those discussions, and looked at the recent editing. Thoughts as follows:

• Lilipo, you are unnecessarily personalising issues at times in those discussions. I also see you apologising at least once, which is good, but it would be best to adhere to WP:TPG at all times. For example, instead of saying "you are exhausting", you could simply say "this is exhausting". Instead of suggesting that another editor is biased, explain that you think the proposed text does not adhere closely enough to the sources. It's worth repeating: focus on content, don't comment on the contributor. If you do that at all times, discussions will run more smoothly and you will find it easier to come to consensus about content.
• Awoma, you wrote "It's a real shame that posts like this containing further needless insults are treated as fine on wikipedia. We can do better!". That is a fine sentiment, and I agree with it. I don't see anything that Lilipo has said to or about you, however, which approaches the level of incivility and hostility that you have directed towards me above. As an admin, I don't deserve a higher level of civility than other editors are due, but I do deserve the same level - I'd ask you to treat others as you would like to be treated, even if you harbour negative thoughts about them. If you think I have acted improperly, here or in the past, the remedy is not to direct sarcastic remarks towards me, it is to ask for review at a venue such as WP:AN, which you are welcome to do at any time.
• With regards to the content dispute, I see a level of general agreement in the discussion with Awoma's thoughts about issues with the opening of the lead, but nothing approaching a formal consensus of the exact wording; this is underlined by the fact that one of the people who expressed general agreement with Awoma later reinstated some of Lilipo's changes after Awoma reverted them. There was a point yesterday when you were both edit warring (an edit skirmish, perhaps?), but I don't think either of you breached 3RR and it has stopped now, so I'm not considering sanctions at this point. There are a number of editors who appear to be active on the page at the moment; if you cannot agree on the exact wording between yourselves, you could consider having an RfC, with two (or more) alternative versions of the lead. That will draw more editors to the page, and would allow a formal consensus to be established, which all parties would then have to gain consensus to change.

I hope that's all clear, I'll be happy to address any other questions or (civil) comments you want to make. GirthSummit _(blether) 10:52, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Are you still confused about how I knew this would be your response? Here's another prediction you can be "confused" by - the next time Lilipo abuses another member, or makes more disruptive edits, you will excuse that too. I would bet money on it. In fact, here's some more abuse you can proudly do nothing about: . Awoma (talk) 11:02, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Awoma, yes, I am still confused by your attitude, I have no idea why you take this approach, or why you are failing to address the concerns that I have raised with it. You have given me another link to a long talk page discussion, which I had not read previously.

Lilipo - that your comments in that thread are not in line with the purpose of article talk pages. You are indeed there casting aspersions about other editors in those comments, and failing to name them does not make that OK. As I have already said, the only purpose of article talk pages is to discuss the content of the article. If you are convinced that there is a group of editors acting in the way you described, it's something that would need to go to ANI, or to Arbcom, with a lot of evidence to support it. I can think of reasons why you might not want to do that, but you either have to either raise a case at one of those venues, or keep those opinions to yourself - don't make accusations like that on article talk pages. GirthSummit _(blether) 11:38, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

I know, what a terrible and confusing attitude! The correct response to an admin repeatedly and predictably doing nothing about Lilipo's abuse of editors is meek reverence. Awoma (talk) 12:14, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Awoma, the correct response, if that's what you think is happening, is to ask for review at the venue I've already directed you to. Your current approach gives the impression that you think other editors should be held to standards of civility that you yourself are not bound by. GirthSummit _(blether) 12:28, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

I correctly predicted, twice, that you would do nothing about the abuse. How terribly uncivil of me. Here's another prediction: the next time Lilipo abuses another member, you will do nothing again. Do nothing forever! Surely the best admin around. Awoma (talk) 12:38, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Awoma, I have offered both of you some words of guidance. I have also explained to you how you should seek a remedy if you don't think I have been fair. If all you are going to do is make sarcastic comments, I don't see any point in continuing this conversation, and I suggest that we stop spamming Lilipo's talk page and move onto something more productive. GirthSummit _(blether) 12:47, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

"Words of guidance" didn't stop the abuse the 10 previous times. Why do you think they will work now? Awoma (talk) 12:53, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Awoma, I don't know which previous ten times you're talking about, but I think you've said enough: stop posting here. If you have anything further you want to say to me, come and do it on my talk page, or go to AN and ask for a review of my actions, and/or the whole situation. GirthSummit _(blether) 13:03, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

"Stop posting!" Excellent. Just wonderful. Doing nothing about abuse is disgraceful and you should be thoroughly ashamed. Awoma (talk) 13:10, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

@Girth Summit:, one can hardly blame Lilipo for thinking that a habit of casting aspersions isn't as bad if it's done vaguely, considering you essentially said as much when I asked why Lilipo was appearing to receive favorable treatment from you over Awoma regarding talk page behavior. --Equivamp - talk 13:17, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Equivamp, "not as bad" is not the same as "OK". I dispute your description of my actions there as 'favorable treatment', but since you too appear to think that I have not been equitable in this I will myself ask for review at AN. GirthSummit _(blether) 13:21, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Girth Summit I have read the conversation about Awoma and me which appears to have played out over three different pages, and thanks to Newimpartial once again being unable to resist inserting himself into a matter concerning me with which he has no reason to be involved at all, is still ongoing on Awoma's talk page (albeit in a way careful not to explicitly name me).

I accept that I did allow things to become too personal on the LGB Alliance talk page at times. I was frustrated by the tag-teaming, but realise that is not an acceptable excuse. I apologise for that. I will say that I also think you were and are facing a blatant attempt at manipulation through a particular aspect of gaslighting: aggressors playing the victim to elicit overcompensation toward their POV . It has certainly never seemed to me that either you or El_C has been reluctant in the least to side against me in disputes, and Awoma and Newimpartial appear to be working the claim that you are in order to get more favorable results despite their own behavior. The purpose, as I'm sure you know, is to leave the party who is accused of playing favorites feeling that they can't call out any bad behavior by the accuser without a "but the other person is also wrong" caveat added, so as not to be further accused. Lilipo25 (talk) 20:12, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Lilipo25, please. El C and I have both explained this - you shouldn't be mentioning Newimpartial like this. I am obviously aware of their editing, so you don't need to bring it to m my attention. You certainly shouldn't be making observations about their motivations. Just leave it - pretend they don't exist, unless you think they have breached their ban in which case you can make a straightforward statement about what has happened. GirthSummit _(blether) 20:50, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

It honestly did not occur to me that when someone had voluntarily joined a conversation about a dispute between me and another person with which they were not involved, linked to diffs of conversations between me and that person and made comments regarding admins' treatment of me in said conversations, that I would be the one violating their Iban if I mentioned it to the same admins on my own talk page, but OK. Will do. Lilipo25 (talk) 21:08, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

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There is currently a discussion at Misplaced Pages:Administrators' noticeboard regarding an issue with which you may have been involved. Thank you. GirthSummit _(blether) 13:37, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Girth Summit I appear to have missed a great deal due to the time difference between where the rest of you are and where I am (and it being Saturday so I slept in and then went out for brunch). So the ANI is over and I can't comment in it? Lilipo25 (talk) 17:30, 20 February 2021 (UTC)

Lilipo25, it has been closed - I don't think there's any need for you to comment, I only notified you as a courtesy, it was a review of my own actions I was looking for. Apologies for the protracted discussion above, which went on for longer than it should have done. Best GirthSummit _(blether) 17:38, 20 February 2021 (UTC)