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:::::Well, to be honest, I was kind of hiding behind that excuse. The truth is, I need to get offline myself soon. --] (]) 19:39, 13 April 2010 (UTC) | :::::Well, to be honest, I was kind of hiding behind that excuse. The truth is, I need to get offline myself soon. --] (]) 19:39, 13 April 2010 (UTC) | ||
FWIW, a summary from my perspective (done pretty fast from memory, no fact checking, no diffs, some of it is blatant looking into someone else's head and ascribing motives, and could be off on details): | |||
*You closed a discussion (fine) | |||
*Someone objected (not fine, consensus was pretty clear, but still, not obviously wrong) | |||
*You restored the close, and somewhere (not quite sure when) the term vandalism started getting thrown about. Could have been handled better. | |||
*ANI thread started by the person who undid your close | |||
*People generally agree with your close, but pointed out that it was unhelpful to call it vandalism. Unfortunately, of those people, one or two sounded a little patronizing, probably unintentionally. Now, I happen to agree with them that you shouldn't call good faith efforts "vandalism", even if they are doing more harm than good. As you yourself realized when it was thrown back in your face later, calling someone a vandal is guaranteed to piss them off, and if it actually is done in good faith, it's unfair. | |||
*You replied too defensively. It wasn't a red herring, it was a different aspect of the same subject. Right about here, I think you stopped "listening" to them , and it would have been useful if they had noticed you weren't listening and dropped it for another day. | |||
*You traded insults with several people, on your pages and theirs. | |||
*Things started to calm down, but there's still the occasional bicker. | |||
*You were blocked. In my own humble opinion, not a useful block, but I do understand it; there was no way to know you'd dropped the subject. | |||
*You made a series of unproductive unblock requests. By now, you're pissed, and there's not much that can be fixed. | |||
*Daniel declines another unblock request, after having "procedurally" declined one. This could have been handled better, but I don't think it was strictly against any rule. Multiple declines by one admin aren't the norm, and can backfire, but I understand he didn't think the first one "counted". | |||
*You deleted his decline (and the comment of another user). Bad decision, even if you thought you were in the right. | |||
*Nihonjoe unblocked figuring this isn't helping anymore (my attitude now, BTW), having not seen your removal. It then gets pointed out to him. | |||
*You start arguing with MRG, when it would have been wiser to keep your head down. | |||
*Nihonjoe feels you acted in bad faith deleting the unblock request, feels tricked, feels that your further arguing indicates you are going to resume things, and reblocks. I don't think this was a trick, so much as not thinking consequences thru. But I certainly don't think this was an unfair block. | |||
Everybody always doing what they thought was right. From my outside perspective, no one here is power mad, or a troll, or a vandal, or anything. Just (per usual) things getting a little worse each time, until they spiral out of control, because no one wants to de-escalate, and everyone escalates a little or a lot. | |||
You say in a couple of places that you don't tolerate fools easily, and you're brusque. But at the same time, at some point you should have noticed that everyone you were coming in contact with was disagreeing with you. Rather than fight half a dozen other people, next time consider walking away (which you did, just kind of late), and realize that when many people are telling you the same thing, it's quite likely that they have a point, even if you don't see it. We can't '''all''' be brusque and assume it's the other guy's responsibility to back down or walk away. | |||
Sorry to pontificate and run, but I have to go be productive in real life, or else I'm going to end up with a lot more free time to edit Misplaced Pages. I'll check in tonight or tomorrow AM. --] (]) 20:11, 13 April 2010 (UTC) |
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- Article text ≠ text in tables. Also, I don't give a flying flip about the symbol, but the coloring looks awful. If it is what the norm is, it looks awful. So who do I go to in order to point the finger? –Turian (talk) 23:28, 4 April 2010 (UTC)
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This doesn't fit nicely into the thread on Dwayne's talk page now, so I thought I'd say it here. I apologise for implying you were not familiar with Dwayne's repeated requests. I was mistaken. That's all. :-) --Deskana (talk) 23:36, 8 April 2010 (UTC)
- No problem. I butted heads with him a little while back, and his page has been on my watchlist ever since. I don't get involved too often, but I just thought I would show it from my point of view. –Turian (talk) 23:49, 8 April 2010 (UTC)
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Hi Turian,
Do you want me to review this unblock request as is? Or do you want to remove it, rewrite it, and then put it back up? This whole thing appears to have spiraled out of control, and I don't think this unblock request, as it stands now, unspirals it. I doubt there is an admin on this site that would unblock based on this request, so it would be a better use of your time to redraft it. --Floquenbeam (talk) 18:50, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- Reworded. –Turian (talk) 18:59, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- This whole situation, starting yesterday, was (IMHO) handled less than optimally by several people. To be honest, mostly by you, Turian, but also including others to a lesser degree. My concern is that I assume if you're unblocked, you're just going to go back to arguing with the people you've been arguing with previously. I'd like the opportunity to discuss this with you, without the block hanging over your head, but first I'd like your assurance that you won't interact with anyone you've been arguing with the last day or so for the duration of this block, even if you think this is their fault and not your. To be honest, I think the "48 hours to get some sunshine" isn't a bad idea, but I understand that being forced to get some sunshine is seldom a relaxing experience. meanwhile, let me check in with Nihonjoe. --Floquenbeam (talk) 19:07, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- Not to make it sound like an excuse, but being on this side of the fence is rather disadvantageous. That's like asking someone not to flinch or move when you punch them, and if they do, you punch them again and again until they sit still. It's a little harder than one might think. I can ignore them for two days, I started doing that before I was even blocked. –Turian (talk) 19:12, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- Not sure I agree with that analogy. Still, as Nihonjoe has given me a cautious OK, and you've agreed to my condition, and since you've been a productive editor that I would hate to lose, I'm unblocking on the condition that you go back to productive editing, and drop this particular issue for a couple of days. I'd like the opportunity to discuss it with you further when you feel like it. And obviously this isn't a carte blanche to resume fighting in 49 hours. OK, let me figure out the dotting of the i's and crossing of the t's, I don't do this very often. It'll be a few minutes. --Floquenbeam (talk) 19:23, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- Not to make it sound like an excuse, but being on this side of the fence is rather disadvantageous. That's like asking someone not to flinch or move when you punch them, and if they do, you punch them again and again until they sit still. It's a little harder than one might think. I can ignore them for two days, I started doing that before I was even blocked. –Turian (talk) 19:12, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- This whole situation, starting yesterday, was (IMHO) handled less than optimally by several people. To be honest, mostly by you, Turian, but also including others to a lesser degree. My concern is that I assume if you're unblocked, you're just going to go back to arguing with the people you've been arguing with previously. I'd like the opportunity to discuss this with you, without the block hanging over your head, but first I'd like your assurance that you won't interact with anyone you've been arguing with the last day or so for the duration of this block, even if you think this is their fault and not your. To be honest, I think the "48 hours to get some sunshine" isn't a bad idea, but I understand that being forced to get some sunshine is seldom a relaxing experience. meanwhile, let me check in with Nihonjoe. --Floquenbeam (talk) 19:07, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- I'm fine with you being unblocked, Turian, but you need to tone things way down. You are pretty much out of control here. You need to take several steps back. You are overanalyzing things and missing the big picture. ···日本穣 · 投稿 · Talk to Nihonjoe 19:22, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- I assure you that I am not. I am not some child who doesn't understand anything beyond the tip of his nose. I believe I was unjustly blocked by you. A block by you was absolutely unnecessary. –Turian (talk) 19:28, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- Luckily, we're all going to go edit articles for a while and talk about this later. Turian, let me know if there is still an autoblock, i think i got them all but I'm semi-hopeless about this kind of thing. --Floquenbeam (talk) 19:32, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- I can talk whenever, now even. And there is no autoblock. –Turian (talk) 19:35, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- Well, to be honest, I was kind of hiding behind that excuse. The truth is, I need to get offline myself soon. --Floquenbeam (talk) 19:39, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- I can talk whenever, now even. And there is no autoblock. –Turian (talk) 19:35, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- Luckily, we're all going to go edit articles for a while and talk about this later. Turian, let me know if there is still an autoblock, i think i got them all but I'm semi-hopeless about this kind of thing. --Floquenbeam (talk) 19:32, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
- I assure you that I am not. I am not some child who doesn't understand anything beyond the tip of his nose. I believe I was unjustly blocked by you. A block by you was absolutely unnecessary. –Turian (talk) 19:28, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
FWIW, a summary from my perspective (done pretty fast from memory, no fact checking, no diffs, some of it is blatant looking into someone else's head and ascribing motives, and could be off on details):
- You closed a discussion (fine)
- Someone objected (not fine, consensus was pretty clear, but still, not obviously wrong)
- You restored the close, and somewhere (not quite sure when) the term vandalism started getting thrown about. Could have been handled better.
- ANI thread started by the person who undid your close
- People generally agree with your close, but pointed out that it was unhelpful to call it vandalism. Unfortunately, of those people, one or two sounded a little patronizing, probably unintentionally. Now, I happen to agree with them that you shouldn't call good faith efforts "vandalism", even if they are doing more harm than good. As you yourself realized when it was thrown back in your face later, calling someone a vandal is guaranteed to piss them off, and if it actually is done in good faith, it's unfair.
- You replied too defensively. It wasn't a red herring, it was a different aspect of the same subject. Right about here, I think you stopped "listening" to them , and it would have been useful if they had noticed you weren't listening and dropped it for another day.
- You traded insults with several people, on your pages and theirs.
- Things started to calm down, but there's still the occasional bicker.
- You were blocked. In my own humble opinion, not a useful block, but I do understand it; there was no way to know you'd dropped the subject.
- You made a series of unproductive unblock requests. By now, you're pissed, and there's not much that can be fixed.
- Daniel declines another unblock request, after having "procedurally" declined one. This could have been handled better, but I don't think it was strictly against any rule. Multiple declines by one admin aren't the norm, and can backfire, but I understand he didn't think the first one "counted".
- You deleted his decline (and the comment of another user). Bad decision, even if you thought you were in the right.
- Nihonjoe unblocked figuring this isn't helping anymore (my attitude now, BTW), having not seen your removal. It then gets pointed out to him.
- You start arguing with MRG, when it would have been wiser to keep your head down.
- Nihonjoe feels you acted in bad faith deleting the unblock request, feels tricked, feels that your further arguing indicates you are going to resume things, and reblocks. I don't think this was a trick, so much as not thinking consequences thru. But I certainly don't think this was an unfair block.
Everybody always doing what they thought was right. From my outside perspective, no one here is power mad, or a troll, or a vandal, or anything. Just (per usual) things getting a little worse each time, until they spiral out of control, because no one wants to de-escalate, and everyone escalates a little or a lot.
You say in a couple of places that you don't tolerate fools easily, and you're brusque. But at the same time, at some point you should have noticed that everyone you were coming in contact with was disagreeing with you. Rather than fight half a dozen other people, next time consider walking away (which you did, just kind of late), and realize that when many people are telling you the same thing, it's quite likely that they have a point, even if you don't see it. We can't all be brusque and assume it's the other guy's responsibility to back down or walk away.
Sorry to pontificate and run, but I have to go be productive in real life, or else I'm going to end up with a lot more free time to edit Misplaced Pages. I'll check in tonight or tomorrow AM. --Floquenbeam (talk) 20:11, 13 April 2010 (UTC)